Suffering Loss in Relationships

I dedicate this Blog to all that have  suffered this pain and found their way.

When your relationship is over with that certain someone that you saw yourself spending the rest of your life with you will grieve my friends. The reason for the breakup overtime will eventaually become less important.

There are many simialries to  grieving a loss of a relationship, marriage or fiendship to  a death of a loved one. The deeper the love the deeper the pain. This grief will take on many different stages.   Asking yourself what happened? How did we get here and why? The depression will set in and your motivation will take a dive. You will find yourself with the blaming card if things would have been done differently.

Allow yourself time to grieve, It is a natural part of life. You have to feel the hurt and pain and then let it go. You are not giving up you are simply letting the pain go.  That is the only way that you can truly move forward. You can visit this stop but you can not set up a permanent residence and live there. There is always a take away and a lesson in all of our lives experiences. Find yours and start building.

Acceptance and choices are the key to moving forward to who you truly are meant to be.  You will eventually feel your heart beat again and your breathing will flow freely.